We have already talked about some of the Internet resources for parents who want to raise without flogging and that they can find in it the support, experience and ideas of other families who have sought ways to manage the education of children without resorting to punishment. In this topic we will see the contact and a first approach to the specialists that deal with the consequences of empathic upbringing.
A first review has left us a good list to start with, but there are many more resources available, both from families, associations and experts on these issues. Today I will recommend a few more, with special emphasis on specialists in psychology and psychotherapy.
Eduard Punset
I start with Punset, one of the authors with the greatest projection in this field, author of books and director of a magazine and a television program, NETWORKS, which provides many scientific data, backed by the greatest specialists in psychology and neurology.
We can read it on their Facebook page and in their blog, where we will find articles about emotional intelligence, the importance of active listening and about the damage it causes to the brain of children not to cover all their emotional needs. We can also find the Networks for Science page on Facebook.
Laura Gutman
Laura Gutman She is an Argentine psychotherapist who works focused on parenting and care for families before the arrival of a child. His page offers news, information, articles and data about his works.
As with all authors, the reading of Laura Gutman's works does not require that we end up being completely satisfied with their appreciations, but I assure you that it is enormously revealing and poses a challenge for self-knowledge.
Yolanda Gonzalez
Yolanda Gonzalez, of whom we have also spoken several times in Babies and more, is a psychotherapist specialized in parenting and author of several books. I think he gives us, in his presentation on his Prevention page, the key to understanding some of our behaviors towards our children, which is the unconscious repetition of parenting patterns that are not always adequate to give them a stable and firm emotional base.
Our society does not prepare us for a comprehensive and bio-psycho-social approach to early childhood. The void of this preparation generally entails the reproduction of educational models, with the consequent intergenerational transmission from parents to children in unflattering educational patterns from the perspective of health. This reproduction of models means that, more or less unconsciously, we repeat "the how" of the interaction we had with our own parents in relation to our children, being probably unsatisfactory for their integral well-being.
Enrique Blay
The therapist Enrique Blay It seems to me one of the wisest authors and best transmit the love to children, deepening the consequences of the treatment we give them in the present for their future. Not surprisingly, it was a pleasure to interview him for Babies and more.
His blog, The Emotional Baby, is a source of inspiration and learning that I recommend.
Casilda Rodrigáñez
This Spanish author, writer and biologist, which I have already recommended on occasion, works especially in the explanation of the social consequences of a parenting in which violence is reflected, not only in manifestly aggressive acts, but also in the damage it does for all to deny the emotional needs of children from birth and during childhood.
Casilda Rodrigáñez She is the author of works such as "The assault on Hades", "We will stop with pleasure" and "The repression of maternal desire and the genesis of the state of unconscious submission", works that can be downloaded from its website directly, where we can also follow many of your reflections
Elsa Punset
Elsa Punset is the daughter of Eduard Punset, and, her work follows the path that her father already marks, deepening in the emotional mechanisms of our psyche and, of course, in the consequences that can cause a bad care of feelings.
I have already recommended reading the "Compass for emotional navigators" but now I want to specifically recommend your website, because, as a resource to learn how to breed without whipping, it is unbeatable.
Conclusion
Some of the most interesting specialists in psychology and therapy they offer their knowledge on the internet, being their pages a source of resources of enormous value for parents who want breed whipping and more empathically, understanding the psychological mechanisms that move their emotions and those of their children.
