As every day we bring you a beautiful story that a mom sends us, in which he explains his experience, wonderful and also bitter, about his motherhood. The series with which we wanted to celebrate Mother's Day with the title "Mom, tell us your story" today makes us feel the pain of losing a much desired child and the joy of born children, which although they do not change the past, if they renew hope and joy.
Sandra tells us her painful feelings about the loss of an advanced pregnancy, a woman's questions about the need for invasive medical tests and the way in which life, again, fills her belly and makes her reborn, blessing her with a Motherhood so desired and it has been so hard to get to enjoy.
My story is like any other mother who has had an abortion.He was a very desired baby. It looked like this was what it was going to be called, it filled me with all the happiness in the world, I didn't know that you could love so much at such a small thing.
But everything happened suddenly, they told me that I had to perform a chorus biopsy. Before I did not know but now I do, that many times they send us to do unnecessary tests to safeguard the backs of gynecologists. That was my case, and before a doctor I never thought that one could say NO.
As a result, I had a 22-week gestation abortion after being admitted to the hospital for more than 5 weeks. And my Lucia was perfect, and even with my contractions I could feel her moving, although the fatal outcome was inevitable.
When the doctors came to visit me after the curettage, I only asked that when I could get pregnant again, and there you come into play: MY LUKE, MY LIFE, MY SKY.
It was a lot of emotion to know that I was pregnant again, but it was a contained joy, I saw how my belly grew, but we did not decide your name until I was 6 months old, and I decided that I wanted to wear Lucia since it is a name that I had always liked it, and that's how on June 28, 2007 my Lucia was born by caesarean section, with 4,270 grams and 53 centimeters. And a little later came my little bug, my Laura, who came into the world last July 1, 2009. They are my two great loves.
Hopefully from here I can avoid someone the bad drink of an abortion, and even more when it is so advanced, and all because of unnecessary evidence.
I must confess that, despite having heard similar experiences, of women who doubt, who have suffered from losing a child, who wonder if their trust in doctors was successful, I am overwhelmed by the reality of a human drama like the one Sandra shares with us. That unborn baby has a place forever in his life and in his heart, and now also in ours.
He congratulated her from the heart for her courage, for her hope, for the sweet tenderness she conveys, for the joy that Lucia and Laura have given to her life. And I send you a huge hug and my thanks for making us partakers of your mother story, wishing that reading it makes you reflect.
